Book review: Dutched Up!: Rocking the Clogs, Expat Style

Book review: Dutched Up!: Rocking the Clogs, Expat Style

  I recently read Dutched Up! Rocking the Clogs, Expat Style by Expat Women Bloggers, and enjoyed reading about life in the Netherlands. The book is an anthology of short stories by female writers and topics address the many cultural differences experienced while living abroad. I laughed aloud when the issue of stolen bicycles came up as I know how important it is when your primary mode of transportation goes missing. The infuriating feeling of someone stealing your bike is akin to stealing someone's horse in the 1800s in the US. Best solved with a duel at high noon! The writer's journey to retrieve her stolen bike, once she found it again, made me laugh! I could relate to many of the commonly experienced expat things like feeling lost, gaining/losing friends, and finally feeling at home in your adopted country that the book addresses. The chapters are short and entertaining, so the book is easy to put down and pick back up...
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Expat Parenting: Coping with Contrasting Child-Rearing Cultures

Expat Parenting: Coping with Contrasting Child-Rearing Cultures

  My latest article was featured in the Wall Street Journal and discussed the child-reading differences I witnessed from my native American culture and my adopted Swedish culture. "Child-rearing is a deeply cultural issue and there are numerous factors─economic, social and political─that affect how we raise our children. In Sweden, children are provided with the space and freedom to behave as children, and parents are empowered to raise their children with a more hands-off approach. What I saw in the Hoboken playgrounds was the need to apologize to other parents for completely acceptable child-like behavior because ultimately, American mothers judge other mothers and we wouldn’t want to accidentally offend anyone, now would we?" To read the full article over at the Wall Street Journal, please click on this link and please provide comments or feedback. Did you ever have a moment where you felt more foreign in your "home" country than you did in your current country?...
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An Open Letter to the Dads of Netflix: You Must Take Parental Leave

An Open Letter to the Dads of Netflix: You Must Take Parental Leave

Dear Dads of Netflix, When news broke of Netflix’s paid parental leave policy, you instantly became the envy of every parent who suffered through those sleepless nights during the first 12 months of his or her child’s life. You have been spared the stressful dance of early morning commutes and meetings that drag past 6pm only to rush home to start bath time before your little one falls asleep for the day. What most fathers wouldn’t give to be in your shoes right now. But now we are seeing articles stating that fathers at Netflix are unlikely to take advantage of this very rare opportunity.  Dads of Netflix – listen closely – you must take this leave. If you don’t take this leave, then nobody can. Let me back up a bit. My husband stayed at home for six months when our daughter was a baby. He was a professional dad with 80% salary—paid for by our taxes and his employer. How is this...
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