The Perfect Relocation in an Ideal World

The Perfect Relocation in an Ideal World

In an ideal world, there would be only perfect relocations. A world in which everything goes according to plan, nobody is running around at the last minute all sweaty with stress, and the children are well behaved on every flight and breeze through connecting airports. In this ideal world, here's what a perfect relocation might look like: In a perfect relocation, there is plenty of time to prepare, find renters/buyers for your current house, sell off unwanted possessions, and close your door one final time without a hint of sadness. In a perfect relocation, you have familiarized yourself with the local language and have language classes lined up to help ease your family into society upon arrival. In a perfect relocation, you get one last visit with all of your family members, and your friends throw you an amazing farewell party complete with meaningful gifts and inside jokes. In a perfect relocation, these same friends and family members promise to keep in touch and they do!...
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Sept 22 Twitter Party—#KnockedUpAbroadAgain

Sept 22 Twitter Party—#KnockedUpAbroadAgain

We want to hear your stories about parenting in foreign countries. Do you have a travel story you want to mention? Maybe you live far away from friends and family. Are you a military family? If so, this Twitter party is a great way to share your perspective. "Twitter Party, what's a Twitter Party? Will there be drinks?" Answer: Yes! But it's totally BYOB. You can connect with fellow travelers, expats, and explorers around the world without ever leaving your comfy sofa. To celebrate the amazing launch of Knocked Up Abroad Again, we are hosting a Twitter Party where we are discussing pregnancy, birth, and parenting experiences. All are welcome at our table and you do not have to be living abroad or have children abroad to participate. If you have an interesting experience or a funny travel story, travel tips, or something new to share, we want to hear about it! Be sure to include the hashtag #knockedupabroadagain in all of your Tweets so...
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An Open Letter—Please, Don’t Forget About Us

An Open Letter—Please, Don’t Forget About Us

We know that we live far away and we know that we chose to create that distance between us, but it doesn't mean that we don't love you, miss you, and wish that we were closer. We are relatively alone—there isn't any family here to swing by for a chat, to help babysit our kids, or to invite us over for a nice dinner. We've created new "family" in the way of friends who are also geographical orphans, but there is still a pause that happens before we think about imposing on a friend. Some of these "family" friendships are new and possibly tenuous relationships that may only exist because we are all in the same boat. Without a deeper connection, it is easy to overstep boundaries and so, in most cases, we choose not to impose. We'd rather be alone and keep those friendships rather than potentially lose our only sources of local support. We need to save those requests in case of...
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